My house is filled with active people. My trihubby works out 2-6 hours a day; dancer daughter dances 6 days a week, 3-4 hours a day; gymnast son works out 6 days a week, 3-4 hours a day; and then there is me. At 45, I was fit. I ran almost everyday and did some small workouts at home. Then I fell, literally, and I fell hard during a run with my running group. Like flat on my face, broken nose, and 8 stitches in and outside of my mouth kind of fall.
When my doctor gave me the all clear to run, I did make an attempt to get back in, but then I got scared. I was so afraid of falling, so I stopped. Then life interfered. I had to sell our old house; arrange the move of our family to Omaha; finish building our new home; get the twins’ summer trip planned; get them through graduation – whew – then hubby was hit on his bicycle by a drunk driver; the move happened; and now I’m getting the twins off to college. All good excuses, right? Definitely NO, but I used them all anyway.
But like with all bad things, more often follows. With the added stress, I added some comfort food, diet coke, and along with it, some extra pounds. It’s not like I grew out of my clothes or anything; I am just not where I want to be. I’m not fit and I’m upset! I look at my family who are all in such great shape and I sometimes feel like an outsider. They don’t say anything, but I worry they are thinking something. More stress and the vicious cycle…
Recently, I have run a few times and went down to the gym in our building, but nothing worth writing home about. But for some reason, something today clicked and I am officially making the change. It is now being documented that I WILL GET FIT AT 46 and you are all my witnesses! The twins will both be active in college – Sam is a diver on the Brandeis University Swim and Dive team and Sydney is double majoring in college, one being a BA in dance. And hubby, well later today we will know more after his doctor’s appointment. But right now, he is still in recovery mode – swims a little, goes for short runs, and jumps on the recumbent bike. If he’s gotten back on the horse, so to speak, it’s now my turn…
TODAY IS DAY ONE. Follow along as I journey to once again join my family in the world of the physically fit…
– DANA
WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO GET FIT IN YOUR 40’S?
Sherry is one of the TriWivesClub and LifeDoneWell co-founders and contributes to multiple blogs. She is a former co-owner of the California Apparel News and had a career in the healthcare industry. Her passions include traveling, real food, the environment, and animal rescue/welfare. She lives a healthy lifestyle and has been a vegetarian since 1987. She and her husband are parents to two rescue pups and reside in Connecticut.
Dana,
It is no easy fit to be the backbone of such an active family. Would all of that amazing-ness happen if you were not around? Sometimes life throws us for a curve and we have to do what’s best for us. Perhaps, you needed to take a break from running to make sure everything else ran? I am applauding you for your strength and remaining positive despite of your troubles. The plan of you getting fit at 46? You will ace it – of that I have no doubts!
Anna, thank you so so much. Your words are sweet and so encouraging. My plan, just be active everyday no matter what! What is your favorite way to stay fit?
I try to eat healthy and go to the gym every other day… It’s not always easy. Dating a triathlete is a good motivator 🙂 He inspires me to take better care of myself 🙂
Anna, I totally agree living with a triathlete is a great motivator. I also love the feeling of race day, it gets me excited to run.
I absolutely LOVE this Dana. And ouch lady, that looks horrendous! You know I am trying to recover from Adrenal Fatigue and trying to get back into shape (slowly). We can support each other 🙂
It was a big ouch! Run was ok today. Luckily my canine Coach Max kept me moving! We’ll do it lady!
You got this…
Thanks Sue. It really helps that I don’t feel my age!